Monday, November 16, 2009

Have you ever thought about dating outside your race?

Well, I never did until I joined a dating service and I told them that I was open however I wanted my first match to be a black man. Well low and behold my first was a white man. I remember opening up the email and it felt like a ton of bricks fall on my head. I then begin to think he will never call and that will get me out of this.....well he did call and we were on the phone for about 2 hours. I remember sitting in my drive way in the car and I did not move. We ended up talking on the phone for two weeks. The one thing I was not going to do was to ask him out. He asked me to meet him for drinks an when I walked in the door he was dressed up (so was I) and he was handsome. I was like yes! However I was nervous, I also knew that he had ask me for drinks which meant that if the conversation did not go well then we would just call it a day. So he ask me to have dinner and it was great. It has been around 2 months and when I tell you that it has been the best two month of my life in dating.

This pass weekend we went Paintballing with my sister and we had a ball. I wonder where this is going to go. I think I am going to put a posting on FaceBook to see what responses I get.